'just looking at the answers so far. You have about what you need.
The aoa example of putting a hand into the airstream and twisting it is easiest, and it also explains the behavior of the elevator in order to pitch the wing. You can talk of levers here too in pitching the nose up. The kids do need to know that we are talking relative motion here, since except for vortices, the displacement of most of these molecules is predominantly just down and back a bit relative to the rest of the air.
I don't think that the 6th graders HAVE TO discuss Bernouli effects for the flight, BUT if you want to demonstrate it, there are a couple amusing experiments they can do:
1) Blow over the top of a small (4" x 6"?) light piece of paper held just below the lips and drooping from its own weight. The air underneath will exert more pressure from below than the fast moving air blowing across the top. The paper rises. This requires some technique though.
2) If you have an old wooden spool (or plastic, foam,...), a small piece of card board or paper, and a pin, you can do this. Stick the pin through the cardboard (perpendicularly), and then place the pin into an end of the central spool opening, with the cardboard against that end. This is just to center the cardboard. Blow directly at the cardboard through the other end of the spool opening. Rather than blowing away from you, the cardboard will stick against the spool, even if you blow directly downward. This is because the still air on the other (outside) side of the cardboard exerts more force on it than the air moving to escape the hole behind it. I used to make up a similar device by epoxying a similar cardboard piece to the end of a straw (with hole) and the other cardboard piece with pin as before.
The lift, as others have said, comes from accelerating air downward (changing its direction) so that the wing experiences an upward reaction force - Newton's Third Law of Motion. This happens when a slight angle of attack is given to a symmetrical airfoil. However, this does not just replace - or invalidate - Bernoulli. The stagnation point (point where air stream splits to go over and under the wing) actually moves down and back from the midpoint of the airfoil's nose. The point where the air rejoins at (near!) the trailing edge also changes. The path over the top of the wing is indeed longer and relative speeds reduce pressure above the wing compared to below. Remember that there is a lot of air affected, even outside the boundary layer, so we aren't just considering air molecules in contact with the wing; these are affected be others and vice versa.
FWIW...So for flat plates, air doesn't follow a planar path everywhere in its vicinity; that too is a complex problem covering more than just the ballistics of molecules hitting the plate. There are fields here. I think that the deflection downward and the pressure differentials are very much overlapping functions - different sides to the same coin.
SO now that I AM a "WOLF" here, I suggest that you CAN make it interesting for the kids without ignoring Bernoulli - IF YOU WANT TO. For the rest of the party poopers out there, please don't bother to start a fight over this on Steve's thread. He wanted info, and he got it. If you disagree, simply say so and/or e-mail me personally. I don't want to hijack his thread.
SK