Larry,
Use 1/8" tabs on sections parallel to the wood grain. That way they will snap right out when you want them. With the ribs I've had cut the 1/8" tabs have rarely broken out on their own before I put a little pressure on them.
As for spar holes, the solution I've settled on is to leave about a .010-.013 gap at one corner of the hole, on a side of the hole parallel to the grain. The kerf on lasers is usually less than that, so just a little nib stays to hold the piece until the sheet is out of the tray. I stumbled on that idea when I noticed that if I wasn't careful with the corners on my drawing objects, the laser would occasionaly leave a hair of wood there. I went back to the original and zoomed in on the offending spaot to find I had left a little gap that wouldn't show on the hardcopy version. Now I zoom every corner to 5000% and overlap the lines a few thousandths.
I too prefer, by far, to do my own drawings. Sure it saves money, but I also know exactly where to adjust the kerf to put a little squeeze for tighter joints (for thin CA), or leave a little play to allow angled fits.
By the way, you probably already know to minimize the nodes on curves for lower laser costs, but be careful if your drawing program has an automatic node reduction feature. Mine will occasionally alter an airfoil curve by as much as .007". Not much, but the errors can accumulate and for some of my free flight airfoils I shoot for better accuracy than that. I'm leaving the image of the drawing below(for a limited production kit rib of a vintage combat model) large enough to show the gaps I use. It also shows the rib support that holds every rib, the LE and TE in position during assembly. This entire model can be assembled in place on a flat surface without glue, then quickly fastened together as fast as you can wick the CA into the joints: